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The Five Fold Kiss a Blessing for the Body
Our bodies long to be blessed, received, adored. We long for safety and connection. Being blessed is the opposite of trauma.
Always ask for consent before each kiss. May I kiss your _____. Let me know when. To Prepare:
Lengthen your breath. Feel your feet. Clear your mind. Open your heart. Slow down. The Five Fold Kiss:
The five-fold kiss is an element of Earth Honoring Spirituality that says the Divine is immanent, here, now in our bodies, our sexuality, our earth and each moment. It involves kissing five parts of the body. Each kiss given is accompanied by a blessing:
Blessed be thy feet, that have brought thee in these ways (or to me)
Blessed be thy knees, that shall kneel at the sacred altar (of our bodies)
Blessed be thy [womb/phallus], without which we would not be
Blessed be thy breasts, formed in [beauty/strength]
Blessed be thy lips, that shall utter the Sacred Names. (our own).
I am a sister to my self first, I am a sister to all women everywhere. I am my own best lover, I am my own best friend. I praise and accept my beautiful vulva, I love Her scent, her feel, her size, her shape, I awaken her with my touch, and she is alive and vibrant. I RECLAIM her power, my power, I RECLAIM her pleasure, my pleasure, I RECLAIM her wholeness, my wholeness as a woman.
You can do this while in the bath, or before a mirror. Say this slowly to yourself and allow yourself to feel every word. You may have to do this more than once and I encourage you to do so. I suggest that you touch yourself as you say this prayer. I love and adore my beautiful goddess body, I love my form. I love and adore my hair, my eyes, my lashes, my ears, my cheeks, my lush lips and my whole face. I love my throat, my neck, I adore all my wrinkles (if you have any), I love and adore my luscious breasts, I praise their perfect size, I love and adore my beautiful arms and perfect wrists. I love and adore my hands and fingers for they are an extension of my self-expression. I love and adore my belly, it’s roundness or firmness, I love my scars (if you have any). I love and adore my pelvis, my hips, and my vibrant vulva. I love and adore my buttocks the roundness, firmness or fullness of my cheeks, I love and adore my thighs, my knees, my legs, caves and feet, even my toes. I love and adore my skin, it is soft and sensual to my touch. I love and adore my whole body, for my body is the body of the Divine Feminine and of the Goddess incarnate. I bless my body and anoint my body with this oil of love and purification. (Use rose oil, ylang ylang or a blend of your own). Take the oil and anoint those areas you feel guided to do.
A woman’s true power is in her ability to know herself as an independent being expressing her feminine nature. She respects herself and her body, she knows her own worth. Her power lies in her ability to be at ease and comfortable in her own body and with her sexual power. When a woman can contain her feminine power, her sexuality from within she is then fully in her true power as a woman.
These are some of the qualities you can develop:
Courage and bravery, strength
Having a voice and speaking your truth
Cultivating your sexual presence and charisma
Celebrating your sexuality
Honoring your feminine power, your body, your sex
Take full responsibility for your sexual power and learning how to use it wisely.
Learning how to be graceful with your sexual allure and power
Feeling integrated and whole with your sexual expressions
Declaring your SOVEREIGNTY as a free woman and as an individual
Invoking the Sexual Initiatress and Activating the Original Blueprint of the Feminine
I invite you to reclaim yourself as a sexual initiatress and a sexually conscious woman, because when you use your sexual power with a sacred clear intent it brings harmony and balance back into your life, your relationships and into the world.
I ____________(say your name), on this day of ________, invoke the power of my own goddess self as Lilith the first original woman who is whole, sovereign and in full alignment with her authentic sexual power. I reclaim my holy sacred role as a sexually conscious woman and as a sexual initiatress. I stand strong, sovereign, and free in my authentic feminine power and activate within myself the original blueprint of the feminine in all its purity and full potential.
I commit to embodying to the best of my ability, this new way of being a sexually integrated and whole woman. As I remember who I am in my role as a sexual initiatress and a sexually conscious woman I commit to my awakening as an emissary of the New Divine Feminine Energy… and as I claim this for myself, I claim this for all women everywhere. I now anchor this new frequency of the Divine Feminine in myself and in the world. And So, It Is! . To Get the Most from Saying this Decree I suggest that you say this invocation three times and each time with more power and conviction until you begin to own this energy and new role. As the number three is a moving forward of energy, overcoming duality, expression, manifestation, and synthesis. Three is the first number to which the meaning “all” was given. It is The Triad and being the number of the whole as it contains the beginning, a middle and an end as the Mother, Maiden and Crone represent the cycles of a woman’s life.